I Have A Stalker
Yesterday, I wrote about
my reconciliation from a mere misunderstanding with my girlfriend and the food
trip that followed in Dampa sa Farmers Market. Today, I would like to blog
about this woman who inflicted the tension and is now pestering me and my girl's
relationship.
This woman keeps on sending me passionate text messages for
more than a month now. In her text messages, she expressed her affection towards
me and even promised that she'll work hard to earn much money if that will only
make me willing to be her husband. She's telling people around her how much she
loves me kuno.
Now, don't think the situation can be taken as a light
compliment. Hell, no! She would call me up in the middle of the night wanting to
speak with me. She seems to be obsessed in getting my attention. She even texted
me her intention of showing up herself one day in the house or in my workplace.
So, you think this is already my chance to earn pogi
points? Never mind. She's going to ruin the sound relationship I presently have
with my girlfriend. Closed friends whom I divulge and confided for this
undesirable circumstances advice me to formally tell this woman to stop
bothering me. But having known a little bit characteristic of this woman, I know
that the best way to do it is just to ignore her. When she just started texting
me up, I correspond to her text messages because she was assuming a different
identity I have no idea about. I stopped in replying her text messages after her
real identity was uncovered. And never did I reply to all of her text messages
ever after that.
This woman is just the same age with my girlfriend, 28. She's
divorced and got one kid who is now in the custody of her former husband. I
really don't have any idea what is it in me that she likes very much. The only
thing I realized is that she just suddenly surfaced from nowhere wreaking havoc
on with my relationship with my girlfriend before I knew it. These are some of
her text messages:
"Naega shiro yu. Wae yu. Naega pogusipoyu anya. Naega
saranghae shiro yu. Naega singgak il hiyu. Chungmal napun saram yu meaniyu."
"Kugo arro buya kugo changnan hagimasiyu."
"Namja mano yu. Taptapiheyu naega erokehiyu apu anya.
Naega ulmana apoyu."
"Naega wae. Saram shiru hajimalgoyu igunon anya arusoyu."
Fellow bloggers, if it's not appropriate for me to be posting
this story, I'm sorry. Women readers, if this story offended you, I apologize. I
just can't help it...
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13 Comments:
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At 11:37 PM, November 03, 2007, Lazarus said…
Gaw, i don't understand anything about the messages. But do assure your girlfriend that you love her and her alone.
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At 1:32 AM, November 04, 2007, Mari said…
I don't understand a word in those text messages. Whatever doesn't really bother me.
The woman is obsessed, she is dangerous. Do what you are doing now: ignore her, and assure your girlfriend that there's nothing between you and this woman.
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At 1:47 AM, November 04, 2007, melai said…
Ano yan Hapon o Korean? uhmmn or binago mo lang yung language? uhmmnn me sayad yata sa tuktok yan e, baka gusto lang talagang manira ng magandang relasyon..tsk tsk tsk ... 'm praying for you Dodong, sana maayos na yan, sayang naman yung relationship mo with your girlfriend kung sisirain lang nyang walang magawa sa buhay..hope na maintindihan ka ni girlfriend..pakasal na kasi kayo e.
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At 6:02 AM, November 04, 2007, cheekycha said…
why?
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At 10:37 AM, November 05, 2007, said…
This is a biased story. You didn't tell us what did you do to
that woman. You even didn't tell how did you meet her. I'm sure you've done her
terribly wrong that's why she's running after you. You hypocrite. You deserved
to be punish by your girlfriend.
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At 11:07 PM, November 07, 2007, dodong flores said…
Lazarus: Gaw, my girlfriend already understand the situation. She knows me best... Our relationship is already back to normal...
mari: Thanx for your advice, man :)
melai: Thanx for your prayers. Until now, ginugulo pa rin ako ng babae. Ganon talaga verbatim and ilan sa mga text niya sa akin. I can understand the language for my own but may not that capable to translate. By the way, Korean yan...
cheekycha: I don't know. I met her in Antipolo when I was managing an Internet cafe last year. She was actually an old acquintance kasi friend siya ng ex-wife ko. Single pa siya at that time and minor age. Of course, I didn't have any involvement with her whatsoever.
anonymous: I'm so sorry to disappoint you. I'm so sorry I can't offer much detail. This is actually a story not necessarily had to be blogged about - but I didn't have any avenue to release my anger. **sigh** If you read my previous post, I stated there that I didn't do anything with that woman. there was one line that I said she just "resurfaced," it is because I already meet her before when she was minor (and to play defensive here, I would like to tell you I didn't abuse her when she was a minor). She's a friend of my ex-wife and would even call her "Ate" a Filipino address to elder sisters.
She's into broken marriage lately, so I don't know what's her motivation of running after me. Please don't judge me yet - not yet... If you will, please pray for me instead...
God bless you...
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At 5:42 AM, November 09, 2007, mj said…
good know that your relationship is back to normal. i think you better change your cell phone number.
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At 9:27 AM, November 09, 2007, dodong flores said…
Thanx for the suggestion, MJ. I'm considering that too. When I get to Sun Cellular, I'll check how much do they charge for changing number.
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At 7:59 AM, November 12, 2007, Abaniko said…
How about changing your number permanently?
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At 10:48 AM, November 12, 2007, dodong flores said…
Thanx for the suggestion, Abaniko. I'm reconsidering and balancing the situation. I also have a lots of contacts from here and abroad. I might lost track of them (or they of me) if I won't prepare much for it. I'll see what I'll be up to.
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At 12:00 PM, November 20, 2007, said…
well you bastard should not have allowed this to happen had you not shown some interest on your so called "stalker". she wouldn't be that obsessed with you had you not entertained or even showed interest on her.
well if you say you are totally clean then well and good. but no fire starts without flaming it!
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At 5:30 PM, November 21, 2007, dodong flores said…
Hi, Anonymous. I'm so sorry I can't convince you that I did nothing wrong in this predicament that I had. While you relied much in your logic, I would like to tell you I didn't make any action that caused this woman to ran after me. For how can I? I have a very understanding and loving girlfriend who is always very supportive to me even during those times of my emotional distress. I can't just play around with any other woman out there for I love and respected much my girlfriend who is righteouss and treated me well. I'm not a hypocrite, I'm always a man to admit any wrongdoings have I done any. Of course, being judgmental, it would be very difficult for me to convince you that what I'm saying here is true. But I wish you didn't call me names as you didn't really know the whole picture.
As fire may not start without flaming it, I tell you it is not necessarily me who started the fire. A few elderly people who pretended us our friend play matchmaker for the two of us, if you know what I mean.
I swear to God I didn't have any participation in this misfortune...
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At 3:54 PM, January 08, 2009, tina said…
hi. this is tina. i am working as a writer/segment producer at ABSCBN. We are now working on with our Valentine's Special Episode. We would like to produce a story on stalkers. Will it be alright if we feature your story and interview you on cam? (ok lang if you'll choose to hide your identity.)
please do email me at cristina_aure@yahoo.com or text me at 09283676372 for feedback. I will be waiting. Thanks.
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